“Do my friends actually like me or are they faking it?”
“Did I shut the stove off?”
“Am I racist, sexist, anti-Semitic?”
“What’s the best way to start a business?”
“Did I proofread the proposal before I hit send?”
“Should I ask her to marry me?”
“Am I doing enough?”
“Will I change the world?”
“What was the best thing before sliced bread?”
“Did I come off mean today?”
“Are the aliens real?”
“Is Putin gonna start World War 3?”
Sound familiar?
It’s easy to get lost in thinking too much. Sometimes it’s fun.
Other times it keep you up at night, with indigestion and restlessness.
Speculating over right decisions and what to do about this or that.
When it happens it is nature’s way of telling you to step your game up brother.
Solution:
Fill your life with achieving goals that make a difference.
– Are you in peak physical health yet?
– Are you combat ready to protect yourself and those you love against any attack yet?
– Are you well-connected so you can solve any foreseeable problem with a phone call yet?
– Are you flooded with women wanting to date you all over the globe yet?
– Are you dating women who prove their loyalty to you by helping you win at life yet?
– Are you making active cashflow that you can invest in passive projects?
– Are you collecting social currency that matters more than money (influence, power, respect, clout, trust, love, happiness, family, brotherhood)?
– Are you taking full charge of your life by mastering your mind so you control your thoughts and emotions so well they work for you yet?
If the answer is ever “NO”, then you have work to do.
Stop speculating and start DOing something to fix it.
You will never feel bad about yourself for improving your situation.
I assure you, you won’t overthink when you are busy making your life the best it can be.
You won’t have time for it.
That’s not to say you won’t have fun speculating with good friends over a smoke after a long week of hard work, and asking,
“If Cinderella’s glass slipper fit perfectly, how did she lose it?”
At that point speculate away. You earned it.
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