Me? Not having several children. A man’s sole reasons for being is to sire healthy children. Strong sons. Beautiful daughters. Guide them through to adulthood where they master lessons they’ll use forever even beyond your passing. I am OK with all my choices and accomplishments, but without that one I failed. So I do what wise men do to have what they want. I made a plan for what kind of Dad I want to be and how to become him, Right Now. I imagined this man in my mind. How he looks like, How he talks, How he moves, How he teaches his children, How he treats their mother, How he disciplines him, How he affords to have more than 5 kids, How he trains them, How he surrounds them with other strong and beautiful children so they know the standard. I created a full man beyond his image. Listed each detail. Explained how the things come together. Wrote a principled reason why for each point. Then this future Dad-Me because so real I could see him in my mind, and hear him in my ears. And as i do the work to become him, I realize one salient blessing. Something every guy should know when building their ideal self and world. Something I share in chapters 1 and 3 of TAKE CHARGE, but most guys miss. A mistake that costs them a calming peace of mind around whatever regret they may have. If you have one regret or many, time to discover the hope hidden inside you. https://knoxuniversity.com/take-charge |
If you died today what would you regret the most? ๐
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